tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post7565583695733083661..comments2023-12-24T06:01:18.961+08:00Comments on LoopyMeals: Corporal PunishmentThatJameshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09807564881759660115noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-75464902779609155372007-05-15T18:51:58.000+08:002007-05-15T18:51:58.000+08:00Of course there are two sides to everything when y...Of course there are two sides to everything when you said, "Pull him into corner somewhere and spare him the public humiliation, if you really need to discipline him."<br>My Mum only need to beat us ONCE in public and we learnt our lesson well because we KNEW Mum would never give us face. So to avoid embarrassment, we were never naughty in public.pelfhttp://chenpn.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-45369717682314572232007-05-15T20:55:12.000+08:002007-05-15T20:55:12.000+08:00wah....corporal punishment already?geez weez.. tha...wah....corporal punishment already?<br>geez weez.. that's a tough noogie eh! The naughty wall/chair/spot/mat/floor method not working?<br>it'll break my heart if i had to cane my monyets. smack them - no probs. but cane?? cannot la..my heart..cannot take it.<br>I got caned big (and many) time(s) from my mama... too many painful memories la!motthttp://mott.blogsome.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-16832584694129559522007-05-16T07:54:16.000+08:002007-05-16T07:54:16.000+08:00think my son's butt too meaty to feel anything...think my son's butt too meaty to feel anything... so not working leh :s<br>tough nut to crack... must have got it from me :Peggheadhttp://littleskywalker.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-41714867305590004712007-05-16T11:00:45.000+08:002007-05-16T11:00:45.000+08:00James Dobson has some pretty interesting takes on ...James Dobson has some pretty interesting takes on family values, but he's a Christian fundamentalist at heart. His organization, Focus on the Family, openly opposes homosexuality. And "discrimination" is not just in my book of family values.Zemienhttp://zemien.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-78679663443737015102007-05-16T14:40:22.000+08:002007-05-16T14:40:22.000+08:00*Calls Children's Aid**Calls Children's Aid*Fanboynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-11822075030316353652007-05-16T17:00:22.000+08:002007-05-16T17:00:22.000+08:00notty corner dun work?mine if i said gimme yr hand...notty corner dun work?<br>mine if i said gimme yr hand he will give me and give a high 5. *pengsan*sashahttp://sashablablabla.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-55513704471731395122007-05-16T22:59:00.000+08:002007-05-16T22:59:00.000+08:00Aww.. Poor Jesse..But you know what they say, Jame...Aww.. Poor Jesse..<br>But you know what they say, James! "Lovekan your son, hand-hand kan your son".<br>You're doing it!<br>What my mom used to do was to make us "kwai tei chu" for the entire incense.. While waiting for it to go off... we sometimes fell asleep. LOL!Shinehttp://shine-on-shine.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-2041019472327290232007-05-17T12:18:25.000+08:002007-05-17T12:18:25.000+08:00IMHO caning can be used, but only where and when n...IMHO caning can be used, but only where and when necessary. Too frequent a caning is degratory to the child's esteem and then the punishment loses its purpose of disciplining. The kid won't be able to comprehend why he/she was caned in the first place - all he/she will know that he/she is a BAD BOY/GIRL and a burden to the parent.<br>Also, there is no point in avoiding public smackings when it is replaced by loud public threats of upcoming punishment at home.<br>That's why all Mommys have "The Look" with them. ;)<br>BTW, strokes of the cane are not as painful as kneeling for 20 minutes on tiny jagged filler stones, or doing the horse stance over joss-sticks (kung-fu style).maggienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-60542177684354355622007-05-17T16:17:21.000+08:002007-05-17T16:17:21.000+08:00Wah... caning is now illigal in NZ.. only allowed ...Wah... caning is now illigal in NZ.. only allowed to smack the kids on the butt or their hands, with your own hand. Guess not moving in the near future then. Hahahaha :)Chiwihttp://www.chiwiland.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-41899497511049480522007-05-18T02:42:54.000+08:002007-05-18T02:42:54.000+08:00canning is good if you use it to discipline a chil...canning is good if you use it to discipline a child gently. most certainly one should not use the cane when in anger or frustration, as you are not disciplining the child but rather taking it (stress, whatever) out on the child.lucianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-21932318299221613572007-05-19T14:03:25.000+08:002007-05-19T14:03:25.000+08:00Mr Whippy and three hotdogs on my bum. I had a ste...Mr Whippy and three hotdogs on my bum. I had a steady diet of that - at least once a week! - when I was growing up. I was one hellraiser then, to be sure. But I'm glad I had sensible parents. It's what taught me to be respectful of authority, mindful of consequences to my actions or the choices I made.<br>It's a time tested method, I now carry on this tradition to bring up my son who's turning out to be an even greater hellraiser than I was! Probably because I don't cane as hard as my dad did me. Kids these days tend to be coddled.jonynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-57624150646414418172007-05-23T10:37:03.000+08:002007-05-23T10:37:03.000+08:00YES! I've made a difference...one less abused ...YES! I've made a difference...one less abused kid in the world...Fanboynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-71943085533728680722007-05-23T14:42:44.000+08:002007-05-23T14:42:44.000+08:00I hate to admit this but I have succumbed to using...I hate to admit this but I have succumbed to using the hanger to beat the crap out of my kids! :-( Then after that say 'sorry'. Now, if you ask my kids why was the hanger was invented, they'll tell you "To beat out butts!"<br>But now that they are older, I've stopped using the 'hanger' liao. Most also beat the hand REALLY REALLY hard...marshahttp://www.marshamaung.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-85515717101156090812007-05-21T22:02:44.000+08:002007-05-21T22:02:44.000+08:00Good for you, Pelf. Only getting it once. :)MOTT, ...Good for you, Pelf. Only getting it once. :)<br>MOTT, someone once told me that it's not good to punish your kid with the very same hand that loves them. Confuses them, apparently.<br>Egghead, skinny guy like you? :lol:<br>Yeah, Zemien, he does have a hard-ass stance against homosexuality doesn't he. But then again, I suppose quite many of us are also not quite ready to embrace homosexuality as a good family value.<br>Fanboy: *Calls off beating*<br>Hmm... I have heard of the effectiveness of the Naughty Corner, Sasha, but something tells me it will fall on deaf ears with Jesse. Will try it. Thanks! :)<br>Luckily not onto the burning incense, Shine. :lol:<br>Hmph. Maggie, my grandma used to torment us psychologically. It was a fate worse than death.<br>Wow, Chiwi. Sounds a little over the top if you ask me. Then again, some parents do tend to overdo it with the beatings. *sigh* Back in my day we got the shit beaten out of us as still we turned out fine.<br>Lucia, I think it happens a lot anyway. Hope it never happens in our homes.<br>Yeah Jony. Kids today are wimps..ThatJameshttp://loopymeals.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-38225483914312659582007-05-22T22:51:02.000+08:002007-05-22T22:51:02.000+08:00Tag, you're IT! :p :p :phttp://the4theye-maggi...Tag, you're IT! :p :p :p<br>http://the4theye-maggie.blogspot.com/2007/05/my-first-meme-beware-p.htmlMaggiehttp://the4theye-maggie.blogspot.com.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-78892957505033964182007-05-29T13:05:50.000+08:002007-05-29T13:05:50.000+08:00i grew up with cane marks on my buns and back of l...i grew up with cane marks on my buns and back of legs. my mum said this will show my friends how naughty i've been, or terrible marks on report book. although i do smack aidan hard on his bum i cannot bring myself to cane him.<br>when aidan was at his worst at the mall, my hubby and i was really up to our noses, but we went to the baby change room instead and had time out.<br>but yeah, i can relate what you're getting at with the TT!Sweetpeahttp://www.sweetpeamy.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-768926762879833006.post-80288656656612950712007-05-31T12:05:10.000+08:002007-05-31T12:05:10.000+08:00NoooOooOoO Maggie!!!!Yes, you have. Vote Fanboy fo...NoooOooOoO Maggie!!!!<br>Yes, you have. Vote Fanboy for president of UN.<br>Really really hard, Marsha!? Pook kids.<br>LOL. I had my share of cane marks too, Sweetpea.thatjameshttp://loopymeals.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com